Now? She's the one always going over to his place, he barely speaks to her family, and a few of her friends have met someone and gotten married in the amount of time she's been dating ole' boy. When I met him, I flat-out asked what his intentions were and he said "marriage."
When things started off, he was courting her pretty strong-taking her out, coming by her grandma's to do things around the house (I even remember him cutting down a Christmas tree for them a couple of times), and being intentional about getting to know her family members and close friends. I've got a lil' love sister (you know, a sis that's connected by love, not blood) who's been with her boyfriend for like 7-8 years now. If you're currently in a relationship with someone and something is tugging at your heart (or brain) to inquire about whether or not you're wasting your time, check out the following five points and then decide (and by "decide," I mean determine if you are and then prepare to make some major adjustments ASAP, OK?).Ĭompare Where Your Relationship Is Now with Where It Was a Year Ago And so, as someone who honestly spent more years of my life wasting time in basically fruitless relationships than I've got the time to write on and you've got the time to read about, I want to do all that I can to make sure that you don't make the same mistakes I did. If there's one thing that none of us can ever (ever, ever, ever) get back, it's time. So much time, in fact, that it caused us to wonder if we were investing time or wasting it. Virtually all of us have been in a relationship where, at the end of the day, the only thing we knew for sure about the situation is that we were spending valuable and precious time. What y'all know about that Culture Club, tho? As I sat down to pen this piece, their song " Time (Clock of the Heart)" automatically popped up in my head and kept playing, on repeat. And time makes lovers feel like they've got something realīut you and me we know we've got nothin' but timeĬ'mon on self-professed music experts.
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